“…at the mouth of two witnesses, or at the mouth of three witnesses, shall a matter be established.” Deuteronomy 19:15b (ASV)
It’s unfortunate how many relationships—whether among friends, family, or within a community of faith—have been damaged due to reliance on one-sided stories. Misunderstandings and conflicts often stem from hearing only one version of events and assuming it represents the complete truth. But is it wise or just to form conclusions based on a single perspective? Absolutely not. A one-sided account is rarely sufficient to reveal the full scope of any matter and often leads to unnecessary divisions.
People interpret and narrate events differently based on their emotions, biases, or current state of mind. What someone shares may seem truthful from their viewpoint, but it is rarely the complete picture. If you fail to hear the other side, you risk making misinformed judgments that could harm relationships and offend God, who desires us to judge matters righteously.
Instead, develop the discipline to pause and seek out all perspectives before reaching a conclusion. The principle of seeking two or three witnesses, as emphasized in Scripture, reflects God’s wisdom in ensuring fairness and balance. By hearing both sides, you safeguard yourself from bias and create room for understanding and reconciliation.
Let this be your practice: when someone approaches you with a grievance or an account of wrongdoing, listen, but don’t conclude. Take the time to hear the other party involved. This simple step can prevent strife, protect relationships, and keep you aligned with God’s will.
Today’s Rhema
Before you jump to a conclusion, make sure you hear from both sides!
Confession for the Day
Thank you, Father, for opening my eyes to this truth. I choose today to listen patiently and hear from both sides before making conclusions. I receive grace to judge matters rightly and avoid unnecessary mistakes in Jesus’ name. Amen!
