“Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one.” — Colossians 4:6 (NKJV)
In the first part of this teaching, we emphasized the importance of not hurting people with your words. Now, the question might arise: “How do I avoid doing this, especially in a world where people easily offend you?” It’s a valid concern, but it is possible! There are specific principles that, when followed, can help you avoid hurting others with your words.
The first rule is to think before you talk. While this may seem simple, it’s one of the most important practices you can adopt. Many people speak impulsively without processing their thoughts first. When you talk before thinking, you may end up saying hurtful things without even realizing it until it’s too late. If you don’t want your words to wound others, pause, and give yourself time to reflect on your response before you speak.
The second principle is to consider the emotions of others. The Holy Spirit taught me this years ago, and it has remained a guiding principle in my interactions. Many people speak without considering how their words might affect someone’s emotional well-being. A tragic example of this was when a young woman took her own life after being insulted online. She was already fragile, and those harsh words pushed her to the edge. If you don’t consider others’ emotions before speaking, you could inadvertently add to the burden they are already carrying.
Finally, consider what God thinks about the things you say. Many people forget that God listens to their conversations. Jesus made it clear that we will all give account for every idle word spoken (Matthew 12:36-37). Knowing that God is paying attention to our words should inspire us to be more mindful of what we say.
When you apply these principles—thinking before speaking, being considerate of others’ emotions, and reflecting on what God thinks—your words will become edifying rather than hurtful. Hallelujah!
Today’s Rhema
When you truly grasp that your words can cause pain, you’ll refrain from speaking hurtfully.
Confession for the Day
Father, I am grateful for teaching me Your Word. Today, I receive the grace and wisdom to speak kindly. By the power of Your Spirit, my words will no longer hurt others but will uplift and edify them, in Jesus’ name. Amen!
