“Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one.” — Colossians 4:6 (NKJV)
As you grow in your relationship with God, it’s essential to be mindful of your words. Words have power—they can build people up or tear them down. When we hurt others with our words, we can break their emotions, and such damage is hard to undo. Sadly, many people today speak carelessly, even with the intent to hurt others. But what is gained from causing pain to others?
Beloved, in all your interactions, be intentional about the words you speak. Think carefully before you say anything. One hurtful word can break someone’s self-esteem or cause emotional harm. You might think, “I don’t care how they feel,” but remember, God cares. If you habitually hurt others with your words, you will eventually be held accountable. Jesus Himself said, “…every idle word men may speak, they will give an account of it in the day of judgment. For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned…” — Matthew 12:36-37 (NKJV).
So today, make the conscious decision to speak with kindness and grace. Whether you’re speaking to your spouse, your colleagues, or friends, choose to be uplifting. It’s easy to let anger drive your words, but this is where self-control—one of the fruits of the Spirit—comes into play. As a new creation in Christ, you are empowered to walk in self-control and speak life into the lives of others. Hallelujah!
Today’s Rhema
When you speak to hurt people, you will be held accountable!
Confession for the Day
Father, I am grateful for this wonderful teaching. I receive wisdom today to speak to people with kindness and grace. I choose to talk with respect, regard, and love, and as I do, I excel in my relationships in Jesus’ name. Amen!
