“So Herodias held a grudge against John and wanted to kill him, but she could not because of Herod.” – Mark 6:19 (GNT)
One of the vital principles to embrace in your Christian journey is the refusal to hold grudges against anyone, no matter the offense. While letting go can be incredibly challenging—especially when faced with betrayal or deep hurt—it is a necessary part of walking in alignment with God’s will.
Grudges are dangerous. They not only poison your heart but also cloud your judgment, leading you to act in ways that can cause harm rather than healing. A striking example of this is Herodias, who held a grudge against John the Baptist for speaking out against her relationship. Instead of forgiving and moving on, she allowed bitterness to fester. This grudge grew so strong that when the opportunity arose, she seized it, using her daughter to demand John’s execution. In the end, her grudge led to extreme and destructive actions—a clear demonstration of how dangerous harboring bitterness can be.
God’s desire for you is different. His will is that you walk in love and let peace reign in your heart. When you’ve been hurt, trust Him to bring justice while you release the offense. Remember, as a child of God, His nature has been imparted into your spirit—a nature defined by love (Romans 5:5). Love, as described in 1 Corinthians 13:5, “does not keep a record of wrongs.”
Let go of any grudge weighing on your heart today. Forgive and allow the love of God to flow freely through you. When love leads, bitterness loses its grip, and you position yourself to walk in God’s blessings. Hallelujah!
Today’s Rhema
Love does not keep grudges; therefore, let love lead!
Confession for the Day
The nature of God is alive in me, and this nature is the nature of love. Because love does not hold grudges, I refuse to harbor bitterness against anyone. As I walk in love, I walk in God’s blessings, in Jesus’ name. Amen!